To my mind it is more responsible to be a man than a woman.

If it is excusable to have some petty vices for women, for men it is not.

We perceive and evaluate men more critically.

Personally I don’t like when a man is emotionally weaker than me.

Whatever feminist a woman could be or whatever independent she could seem, she needs constant care and attention and she needs a trustworthy and fair man to be near her and to take care of her.

When a man does not keep his promise is so exasperating that he is automatically perceived as unreliable, and that who is not able to take responsibility.

Ladylike or effeminate men also exasperate. In our modern world the bounds of women and men fashion are so thin, and the unisex movement is so popular that it is sometimes impossible, from the first sight, to define whether it is a man or a woman stands in front of you.

On the other hand, rude, brutal, and impertinent men  lacking education but having an extremely high ego, irritate.

Once I met a homeless and untidy dressed man; he had an intention to get acquainted with me and asked my name becoming so angry when I dared to say him no. Of course, “shit happens” but it is more a man’s nature to overestimate himself.

Hence, boasting is also irritating. When a man demonstrates his high status too pointedly (or tries to pretend to be a man of high status) in order to enhance his reputation. It resembles baboon behavior attracting its female.

Slovenly, untidy men alienate. Of course he may think that it is insignificant and small matter to have a three days’ spot on the sheet when he saves the world. Dirty boots, dirty socks etc. do not add attraction.

Greediness, pettiness.

Once my boyfriend invited me to a Café, we’ve met on the street and on the way he saw a nice flower girl with a basket of forest flowers. My boyfriend started to beat down the price in order to present me flowers. I was so ashamed that I wished the Earth could swallow me up!

When a man becomes too much addicted.

“Too much water drowned the miller”. Constant asking questions like “Where have you been?”, “Who is that guy?”, “Show me your mobile phone I want to know who was calling you” etc. demonstrate diffidence and fear to loose a woman that is really alienating.

It concerns both women and men. It is a psychological aspect – we often want to gain something we do not have.

So great could it be all men would read these aspects, it could prevent so many unnecessary and stupid scandals and quarrels.

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