Tips in Order to Keep Him Only For You

May 30, 2009 by Katerina

You will always try to keep the man you have near you and have the most beautiful relationship ever. Here are some tips which will help you accomplish your dream:

Even if time, cities or fashion change, men will always love to conquer women. It is a born instinct which men don’t want to lose. Let yourself be seduced, spoiled, impressed by your lover. On the other side, you should also decline his invitations, now and then because it will make him want you more.
You should maintain the old friendships and daily activities. Maybe one of the things men hate the most is a woman who stands on the coach waiting for her boyfriend to appear. When he will see that you are becoming dependent of him he will lose any interest in you.
If he likes football, cars or fishing you should respect his wishes. Don’t try to keep him away from his passions because sooner or later he will run from the relationship you have. You wouldn’t like if he would do the same things to you, would you? A solution is to go with him to a football match if he proposes this to you.
Friendship is the one of the most precious things in a relationship. In this case, you should avoid any discussions in contradictory and listen to his problems even if he doesn’t do this usually.
Passion is another important thing in any relationship. You should look always well, even if you are at home. Imagine seducing situations which will incite him, such as doing striptease or a romantic dinner including candles and a good wine. Of course you also need these kinds of surprises in order to be stimulated, isn’t it?
Don’t refuse him in bed even if you are not in the proper mood or you don’t feel well. You shouldn’t lie to him because there is nothing more shameful than a revealed lie. He’d better leave you because of the truth instead of leaving because he discovered you lie.
A very frequent mistake in most of the relationships is to suffocate him with too much love. He needs some space to go out with his friends or just to be alone. When he goes out with his friends you can invite a friend to your place and have fun discussing about fashion, soap operas or cooking recipes.
You shouldn’t treat your lover as your best friend or confident. If you want to talk about your bad moods, about clothes or diets you should call one of your friends. Don’t abandon your friends because they are the only one who will discuss about everything your boyfriend doesn’t like to.
Be careful! Don’t underestimate him in public. What a man hates the most is to be treated as a useless person or as an easy mark. If he says things you don’t agree, tell him what you thing when you are at home, by yourselves. If not, he will end up hating you.